Falling in love is like one of the most wonderful feeling a person could ever feel. To love and beloved knowing that someone cares for you and vice versa is cloud nine. Love, as an inspiration to go through life.
Isn’t that something? Definitely it is.
But what if all the feeling has gone? What if all you have cared & hope for ended up just for nothing? And you realized that it wasn’t worth it after all. You realized that the feelings you have for this person had started to slip away? That it was just false alarm. That everything wasn’t for real. That everything is just a show?
I’d like to believe that falling in love and getting hurt in the process is a just a part of it. They say, life is not always a bed of roses. The same rule applies with love. You fell in love, then you get hurt, then you fell out of love. It is but normal.
Personally, I have love 3 times in my life and counting, well aside from my family of course which I would love forever.
It all started when I was 23 yrs old, up until now. Seven years, I have been in love for seven years.
I have met a lot of people, mingle & bond with them. But these 3 made me feel the true meaning of love. They made me feel how it is to love and beloved, to get hurt and heal all wounds along the way, all in different ways.
The painful and the hardest part of all this is when the relationship turn sour and you have to let go, get over with and move on. Though both love maybe strong but it isn’t permanent. They would end up loosing each other.
Some people had to deal with it for months, weeks, days.
Isn’t that something? Definitely it is.
But what if all the feeling has gone? What if all you have cared & hope for ended up just for nothing? And you realized that it wasn’t worth it after all. You realized that the feelings you have for this person had started to slip away? That it was just false alarm. That everything wasn’t for real. That everything is just a show?
I’d like to believe that falling in love and getting hurt in the process is a just a part of it. They say, life is not always a bed of roses. The same rule applies with love. You fell in love, then you get hurt, then you fell out of love. It is but normal.
Personally, I have love 3 times in my life and counting, well aside from my family of course which I would love forever.
It all started when I was 23 yrs old, up until now. Seven years, I have been in love for seven years.
I have met a lot of people, mingle & bond with them. But these 3 made me feel the true meaning of love. They made me feel how it is to love and beloved, to get hurt and heal all wounds along the way, all in different ways.
The painful and the hardest part of all this is when the relationship turn sour and you have to let go, get over with and move on. Though both love maybe strong but it isn’t permanent. They would end up loosing each other.
Some people had to deal with it for months, weeks, days.
They would cry and cry.
They would blame themselves for what happen.
They would become vulnerable and feel miserable of themselves.
They would drink and get drunk thinking that they would get away with it.
They would even do it the harsh way by taking away their lives or shaving their heads maybe.
Different style, ways & art of letting go and you could finally say that you are so over it. A time to let go and allow yourself to hurl into your own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.
NOTE:
A friend of mine wanted me to write about letting go and getting over at love. So this is the best that I can do for that person. Although I have injected some of my experiences.
4 comments:
letting go is indeed super hard. but based on experience, time heals wounds. no matter how hurt you were, it won't hurt that much given the right amount of time.
that's very true kat. i couldn't agree more.
ANG GALING NAMAN, GANDA NAMAN NG LAMAN NITONG ARTICLE/BLOG. AYOS KA TALAGA, SIGURO MAY INSPIRATION KA SA BLOG NA ITO ANO? HE HEHE, MELODRAMATIC AND TRAGIC ANG DISCRIPTION KO SA BLOG NA ITO, AHIHIHI, SABI NGA "WERE ALL IN THIS" SITUATION, MOST OF US MAYBE SUFFER OR INTO THIS KIND OF SITUATION HAVING SUCH FEELINGS, OF LOVING AND UNBELOVED IN RETURN. WE HAVE LOVED, AND THE BEST THING THAT WE CAN DO IS TO JUST LOVE, DONT EXPECT IN RETURN, COZ 99% OF THE PERSONS WE LOVE WILL NEVER LOVE US THE WAY DO. THE LOVE THAT WE LONG FOR, WILL BE GIVEN TO US, THRU SOME OTHER MEDIUMS, THRU SOMEBODY, ONLY THAT WE DONT THAT MUCH GIVEN DUE IMPORTANCE COZ ITS DIFFERENT PERSON FROM THE ONE WE TRULY LOVE. SANA NAINTINDIHAN ANG GRAMMAR, AHIHIHI....
tnx marvin wally for sharing ur idea of love. ok ka ha!
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